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04 May 2015 @ 06:42 pm
Am gonna enter this, but competition be strong, yo.


That is a marvellous short story if you have the time to read it.
04 May 2015 @ 05:50 pm
If you had to choose one food to eat for the rest of your life, what would you choose? (Assume any chosen food has complete and balanced nutrition, even if nothing could be further from the truth.)
Your placenta. With a nice chianti.
22 April 2015 @ 07:21 pm
Have just been reminded of Cloud Atlas. Last book I recommended to Dad before he stopped reading for a while, last book I can remember us discussing in the car. As he drove.

Strands. Threads. Networks.
Current Music: Sharon Van Etten - A Crime
21 April 2015 @ 04:28 pm
Current Music: Joan Jett - Bad Reputation
20 April 2015 @ 05:49 pm

Please show it some love, Constant Readers!

I've noticed both stories I've submitted to that site are first date scenarios. Urk, better fix that.
Current Music: Ruins - Threshold Forms
09 April 2015 @ 08:26 pm
I've just been reminded of something that bugged me when I attended this, which was the subject of historical abuse coming up.

One guy in the audience, over the average age of the attendees present, and also in the minority (iirc) due to being a bloke, talked about an historical abuse case he'd heard about where the police were investigating something between a man and a woman which was completely unrelated to something they dug up in the couple's past to do with an act of sexual violence from the man towards the woman. The issue the woman had approached the police about took a backburner while they investigated business which took place years ago. We're talking decades.

Anyway, the guy in the audience, in the most sensitive way (I thought) asked would the woman perhaps preferred not having been reminded of all that? Maybe she'd put it behind her? Maybe they'd worked through it? Maybe she'd like to forget about it?

At that last phrase, the audience gasped. The mic was returned to the panel. One of the speakers (tbf her first language wasn't English - oh, there's a link to the reference in my post yesterday about Brighton being a multicultural melting pot which was categorically denied!) flashed her eyes and said fiercely, "Of course she hasn't forgotten about it!"

The man tried to defend himself while the audience shook their heads and tutted at him.

I understood perfectly what he was trying to say. And yes, I imagine it was painful for that woman to relive her experiences, and maybe she would prefer to try to forget about them. Or, if she wanted to work through it, maybe she'd prefer to do it with a counsellour or methods of her choice rather than whatever the police offered.

I felt bad for the bloke and also ashamed of the women there for leaping to conclusions. These presumptions and accusations will only serve to drive men away. If you want them on your side (and clearly this one didn't need much persuading as he'd already paid to attend the event) let them speak and LISTEN.

I'd hate to think this guy entered the room having a respect for women, and then left feeling embarrassed, which may have possibly developed into a little hatred of women for jumping to the wrong conclusions and believing the worst in men all the time. Jeez Louise.
27 February 2015 @ 09:06 pm
I wrote this. I've done little else with my spare time this week. It's kinda clunky. Kinda very clunky. And rushed. But I think I'm getting there. I've improved. Trying to write less like a medieval bard, taking out lots of adjectives and that.


Would appreciate your <3s

03 February 2015 @ 08:09 pm
Don’t compare yourself to other people

It’s easy to look at people succeeding at the thing you love when showering counts as a major achievement and hate yourself even more. Do not do this. Remember what you’re capable of and remember that there’s a good chance that the people you envy will also have days they can’t get out of bed. And showering is a terrific achievement, so you should pat yourself on the back and admire how clean it is.

From: http://www.ideastap.com/IdeasMag/the-knowledge/coping-with-depression
Current Music: Lolita Storm